Meet the Blessings.
Allow us to introduce ourselves! We are Eric and Hartley Blessing, a team of two from Tulsa, Oklahoma. In our life together, we have benefited greatly from the tool of the Enneagram which has helped us develop greater self-understanding and compassion for one another. We offer ourselves as guiding companions to come alongside those who seek a deeper understanding of themself and God through the lens of the Enneagram. Using Gospel-centered resources of spiritual formation along with the insight of the Enneagram, we seek to come alongside others as they discern the truth about themselves, others, and God.
Hartley: Type 9w1
Education: B.S. in Advertising & Graphic Design from ORU, YEC Certified Enneagram Coach
Hobbies: Flower and herb preservation, gardening, art, and baritone ukulele
Passion: Helping others to value their unique perspective, become who they were made to be, and embrace their identity as Christ’s beloved.
Eric: Type 8w9
Education: B.A. in New Testament Theology and M.A. in Biblical Studies from ORU, YEC Certified Enneagram Coach
Hobbies: Gardening, jam bands, craft coffee, and reading
Passion: Equipping others to become biblically literate, develop rich emotional health, and take ownership of their faith in order to share it.
What is the Enneagram?
The Enneagram (Ennea = Nine, Gram = Diagram) is a typology and a tool for developing self-knowledge and maturity. The nine points of the diagram represent nine different personality types. The Enneagram gives accurate insight into the core motivations that inform your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. By harnessing this self-knowledge, unhealthy patterns can be transformed into paths of profound growth.
What does Akoé mean?
Akoé is derived from the Greek noun for listening. What we mean by listening is not simply taking in data points. We mean a divine, deep, and internal listening that begets understanding. This understanding is followed by direct obedience. Thus, akoé means listening with action. We hope that, by helping clients understand their enneagram type, they may hear the voice of God with greater clarity.
How we use the Enneagram:
The Enneagram is a modern tool based on ancient concepts. Although this tool was developed outside the Christian faith, it has a long history of use in Spiritual formation within the Church. The Enneagram can be an insightful guide when paired with reliance upon the Holy Spirit to lead us into greater self-knowledge. We view the Enneagram simply as a tool for the Spirit to help us on our journey to become like Christ. We hope to help you utilize this tool to cultivate more space to hear the voice of the Lord in your daily life.
Enneagram Coaching
Studying the Enneagram alone can often lead to pure data consumption, which does not lead to transformation. Hiring an Enneagram coach can provide insight into your journey of self-discovery and personal growth. By delving into the depths of your Enneagram type, you can uncover unconscious patterns, overcome obstacles, and cultivate healthy spiritual habits. An Enneagram coach can help you navigate the information of the enneagram with compassionate guidance and practical strategies. We are here to help you sort through challenges, deepen your relationship with God, and live out your faith with authenticity and purpose.